"T"

Okay so it's T's turn, T and i have a tendency to clash, while him and his mother for the most part get along real well. He is a very sensitive little boy, Last night we where at Grandma's house, Timothy decided he was hungry and stole a cookie, when we found out, we asked him to apologize to Grandma, he immediately burst into tears, and no one could understand what he was saying, when we finally got him calmed down and could understand what he was saying, he apologised to his Grandma, he had everyone sympathy's by then, with most forgetting that he did something he shouldn't of.

Timothy tells me all the time that he hates me, because i used to spank him. He has trouble understanding the purpose of punishment, all he knows is that someone must not love him if they punish him, and therefore he should hate them back. Now rather he means it, i don't know, Melissa says that he doesn't. Being the cruel and hateful parent that i am, we came to the understanding one day, that he will stop saying he hates me, in exchange for me continuing to feed him. I of course am kidding and no i would never starve my children, short of the occasional going to bed without dinner, due to naughty behavior. and yes "used to" is the truth when it comes to spanking him, it's been over a year, since i spanked him, he just can't seem to get it out of his head.

I have had more then 1 person say i am screwing him up, thanks everyone for the vote of confidence! Well explain to me how i can avoid this if the kid doesn't like me? I do spend time with him, which for the most part he doesn't want to do. He won a date night with Dad due to good behavior, and his comment was "Oh, I guess that's alright"

But on the other hand, he is very helpful with his mother, he is usually the first there, when Melissa says she needs help with something, and the first one to give her a hug. he tries to play with J.D. even if Evie tells him not to. He loves to share a room with J.D. you can hear them all the time giggling and playing, until of course Evie decides she needs to find someone to boss around. and he loves to hang with his parents, mostly his mother, he will just sit next to her and just talk away. If i am lucky we have a good conversation now and then, but it's rare.

He has been a little behind on his reading, but has improved quite a bit this year, and he gets really excited when he finishes a book and gets praise for it, and he deserves it, he has come along way.